The Biggest Lies We Believe About Love And Sex


Even though we arguably live in the most sexually liberated era yet, we're still fed a lot of misinformation about sex and love that keep us from satisfying our own desires and the desires of our partners. 

But how do we learn the basics of such a taboo subject?

In this frank and humorous talk from Mindvalley A-Fest Ibiza 2017, nationally syndicated sex and relationships advice columnist Dan Savage shares the 3 biggest myths we believe about sex and love that keep us from fulfilling our romantic relationships.

And the great thing about Dan? He replaces the taboo and shame around with empathy, humor, and realistic sexual ethics based on research and experience.

The Best Highlights


  • (4:08) — Dan shares the 3 most damaging lies about sex, love, and monogamy he's learned after 25 years as an advice columnist;

  • (18:13) — What practice you should "steal" from gay relationships to enhance your sex life;

  • (23:43) — The 4 magic words that every couple should have in their vocabulary to improve their romantic relationships;

  • (31:34) — Why humanity needs to rethink monogamy, infidelity, and true commitment.

Watch this video if you want to learn more about how to increase the passion, commitment, and understanding in your romantic relationships.

You have what it takes to create an impact and positive change in the world. Join other brilliant minds at Mindvalley A-Fest Montego Bay 2017 and learn how you can take your life's purpose to the next level.

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